ci(no-release): update commitlint to use scripted approach

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This commit updates the commitlint job to use a scripted approach so that the job causes less blunt-force trauma to committers. It not uses the summary of the MR when the MR is set to squash instead of running on every commit individually.

As suggested by Florian, with a big thanks to the cli team!