Update instructions to bootstrap a new cluster

Alejandro Rodríguezrequested to merge
post-pg12-upgrade-new-cluster-runbook into master

These changes are required after the pg12 upgrade and the adjustments made on gitlab-cookbooks/gitlab-patroni!88 (merged)

Closes https://gitlab.com/gitlab-com/gl-infra/infrastructure/-/issues/13343

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