ci: refactor check jobs to use matrix

Replace individual check:aria* jobs with a single matrix-based job to reduce duplication and improve maintainability. The matrix automatically generates parallel jobs for all aria distributions (aria, aria-updates, aria-security, aria-backports) using bookworm.

This simplifies adding new distributions in the future and makes the CI configuration more scalable

so for bianca - we can just create a new matrix with bianca variables