utils.py: Wait for threads to exit in _is_single_threaded()

Jürg Billeterrequested to merge
juerg/await-threads into master

gRPC threads are not joined when shut down.

This should fix _is_single_threaded() assertion failures in the tests-buildbox CI job. I wasn't able to reproduce the issue locally but I've tested this with multiple CI runs.

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