ipc: use $PREFIX/libexec for the backend servers

The FHS prefers libexec over lib, though both are acceptable: https://refspecs.linuxfoundation.org/FHS_3.0/fhs/ch04s07.html

We should continue to use lib as a fallback for a smooth transition.

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