Use streq and memeq from Gnulib
When using `strcmp` and `memcmp` for checking equality, one would write `strcmp(...) == 0` or `!strcmp(...)`. This is error prone, especially when negating a condition with multiple comparisons with De Morgan's law.
Gnulib provides functions `streq` and `memeq` to avoid that. Let's switch to them also update our contribution guide to suggest that.
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