Reimplement preloading of user preferences for board lists

What does this MR do?

We removed preloading in !17318 (merged) to fix a bug.

This MR reimplements preloading so that there is no N+1 when loading user preferences

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Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

Conformity

• Changelog entry
• [ ] Documentation created/updated or follow-up review issue created
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Performance and Testing

• Review and add/update tests for this feature/bug. Consider all test levels. See the Test Planning Process.
• Tested in all supported browsers

Security

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#32395 (closed)