LooseForeignKeys::CleanupWorker silently falls behind; loose_foreign_keys_deleted_records grows unbounded
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## Background
The Loose Foreign Keys (LFK) framework removes related records asynchronously: triggers append rows to `loose_foreign_keys_deleted_records` (a partitioned table) when a parent row is deleted, and `LooseForeignKeys::CleanupWorker` runs on a 1-minute cron to process those rows in batches.
On large or busy self-managed instances the worker silently falls behind, and the failure modes are not surfaced anywhere an operator looks. The pattern recurs in several recognizable shapes:
- **Worker runs but `delete_count: 0`.** Scheduled invocations succeed but no records are processed. `loose_foreign_keys_deleted_records` continues to grow; old partitions never drop because they still contain unprocessed rows. The recurring diagnostic is the [`PartitionManager` bug pattern documented in the LFK runbook](https://docs.gitlab.com/development/database/loose_foreign_keys/#partitionmanager-bug), where records are stranded in a non-active partition that the worker no longer reads.
- **Statement-timeout on specific deletion queries.** Worker invocations log `PG::QueryCanceled: ERROR: canceling statement due to statement timeout` on the LFK cleanup query. The hot queries are typically `UPDATE "gitlab_partitions_dynamic"."ci_builds" SET "user_id" = NULL ...` or `UPDATE ... SET "project_id" = NULL ...` for partitioned tables (`p_ci_builds`, `p_ci_pipelines`). The default batch size and per-query timeout are not tunable from operator-facing configuration.
- **Large-deletion backlogs the worker cannot drain.** A single customer-initiated event (e.g. enabling pipeline expiration on a large project, mass project deletion) creates hundreds of millions of rows in `loose_foreign_keys_deleted_records`. The default batch size cannot drain it within the cron cadence, and the backlog grows monotonically.
- **Cleanup mid-backup produces restore-time failures.** When the worker creates a new partition of `loose_foreign_keys_deleted_records` while `gitlab-backup create` is running, the resulting dump captures the partition table and its index in inconsistent states. Restore then fails with `cannot attach index ... as a partition of index ...`. The documented mitigation (run the cleanup worker manually before backup) is unenforceable on a 1-minute cron.
Across all of these, the team's remediations are folkloric and not in customer-facing docs:
- Enabling the `loose_foreign_keys_turbo_mode_main` feature flag for the cleanup worker.
- Running a one-off Ruby snippet that overrides `LooseForeignKeys::ProcessDeletedRecordsService::BATCH_SIZE` and `CUSTOM_STATEMENT_TIMEOUT` at runtime — with the caveat that under transaction-pooled PgBouncer the per-session statement timeout is silently ignored.
- Manually re-inserting unprocessed rows from inactive partitions into the active partition so the worker will pick them up.
- A queryable per-partition status snapshot:
```sql
SELECT partition, fully_qualified_table_name, count(*)
FROM loose_foreign_keys_deleted_records
WHERE status = 1
GROUP BY 1, 2;
```
The signal is that the LFK framework has **no operator-visible health or backlog metric**, **no enforceable invariant tying cleanup state to backup safety**, and **no documented escape hatch** for the predictable cases (large-deletion backlog, stranded inactive-partition rows, statement-timeout on specific queries). Customers only learn the worker is stuck through secondary symptoms — DB growth, restore failures, or downstream FK-related performance issues.
This is a long-running pattern: an earlier occurrence was tracked in [`gitlab-com/request-for-help#2336`](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-com/request-for-help/-/issues/2336) (2024), whose remediation recipe is still being linked verbatim across 2025–2026 RFHs — indicating the framework's operability has not improved despite repeat exposure.
Affected versions span 17.x and 18.x; affected installations are large self-managed deployments, frequently on managed PG, with high data churn (CI pipeline expiration, project deletion campaigns).
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