Commit count missing on MR creation page for very large MRs
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## Description
The merge request creation page currently does not show a commit count for very large merge requests (100K+ commits) due to performance issues.
This is a follow-up to issue #576241, where such MRs were erroring with a 500. This was resolved with https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/210440, but the problem persists that the commit count will be missing.
## Goal
Optimize the performance of commit count calculation and display on the MR creation page so the count can be shown again without impacting page load times.
## Proposal
TBD.
Maybe we could fallback on the frontend count?
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