Failures in spec/requests/api/graphql/mutations/merge_requests/set_assignees_spec.rb:119 and 141 and 160
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This test `spec/requests/api/graphql/mutations/merge_requests/set_assignees_spec.rb:119` and line 141 and 160 can only pass with `rspec-retry` and it'll not pass locally, failing with: https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/jobs/6324433092
```
3) Setting assignees of a merge request when passing an empty list of assignees removes assignee
Failure/Error: expect(recorder.count).to be <= db_query_limit
expected: <= 35
got: 37
# ./spec/requests/api/graphql/mutations/merge_requests/set_assignees_spec.rb:55:in `run_mutation!'
# ./spec/requests/api/graphql/mutations/merge_requests/set_assignees_spec.rb:120:in `block (3 levels) in <top (required)>'
```
And
```
2) Setting assignees of a merge request when passing append as true does not replace the assignee in CE
Failure/Error: expect(recorder.count).to be <= db_query_limit
expected: <= 26
got: 29
# ./spec/requests/api/graphql/mutations/merge_requests/set_assignees_spec.rb:55:in `run_mutation!'
# ./spec/requests/api/graphql/mutations/merge_requests/set_assignees_spec.rb:142:in `block (3 levels) in <main>'
```
And
```
2) Setting assignees of a merge request when passing remove as true removes the users in the list, while adding none
Failure/Error: expect(recorder.count).to be <= db_query_limit
expected: <= 34
got: 37
# ./spec/requests/api/graphql/mutations/merge_requests/set_assignees_spec.rb:55:in `run_mutation!'
# ./spec/requests/api/graphql/mutations/merge_requests/set_assignees_spec.rb:161:in `block (3 levels) in <main>'
```
It's quarantined in https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/145653
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