Fix 16.5 upgrade failure due to unique_batched_background_migrations_queued_migration_version
Zendesk: https://gitlab.zendesk.com/agent/tickets/486680
### Error:
```
PG::UniqueViolation: ERROR: duplicate key value violates unique constraint "unique_batched_background_migrations_queued_migration_version"
DETAIL: Key (queued_migration_version)=(20230721095222) already exists.
```
#### Details:
1. https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/132264 added the unique index `unique_batched_background_migrations_queued_migration_version` in %"16.5 (expired)".
2. https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/127212 created `DeleteOrphansScanFindingLicenseScanningApprovalRules2` migration to enqueue 2 BBMs in the same milestone %"16.5 (expired)".
3. Both (1) and (2) got merged on the same day (28th Sep).
4. With the new unique index we can only enqueue one BBM per post-migration, but somehow _DeleteOrphansScanFindingLicenseScanningApprovalRules2_ went through fine in Gitlab.com's `gstg` and `gprd`.
#### **Cause:**
The above error can happen while upgrading to 16.5 (or directly to higher versions upto 16.8) with [zero-downtime](https://docs.gitlab.com/ee/update/zero_downtime.html).
#### **Reason:**
[DeleteOrphansScanFindingLicenseScanningApprovalRules2](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/blob/9a782120f605a6858ae50c6eb54685407a1a48b3/db/post_migrate/20230721095222_delete_orphans_scan_finding_license_scanning_approval_rules2.rb) enqueues 2 BBMs in the same migration and [AddQueuedMigrationVersionToBatchedBackgroundMigrations](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/blob/12a9c323f2673d6e5e78e4efc1b8deffe9856ac5/db/migrate/20230921081527_add_queued_migration_version_to_batched_background_migrations.rb) added an unique index on `queued_migration_version`. The first migration's timestamp is `20230721095222` but it being a post-deployment migration, it will get executed after the second migration (`20230921081527`) if the customer has done `zero-downtime` upgrade.
#### **To Unblock:**
1. Drop the unique index:
```sql
DROP INDEX unique_batched_background_migrations_queued_migration_version;
```
2. Re-run the upgrade, this should make the _DeleteOrphansScanFindingLicenseScanningApprovalRules2_ migration to pass without any error.
3. After the successful upgrade, execute below SQL commands to introduce the unique constraint back.
```sql
UPDATE batched_background_migrations SET queued_migration_version = NULL
WHERE job_class_name IN ('DeleteOrphansApprovalMergeRequestRules2', 'DeleteOrphansApprovalProjectRules2');
CREATE UNIQUE INDEX unique_batched_background_migrations_queued_migration_version
ON batched_background_migrations USING btree (queued_migration_version);
```
_Note_: You might have to restart gitLab with `sudo gitlab-ctl restart` on a Rails node if it doesn't come back on its own. Restarting Sidekiq nodes might be necessary as well if you notice hanging or failing background jobs.
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