Add actor to `data_transfer_monitoring` feature flag
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Follow-up to https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/113599#note_1307575006
We should consider adding an actor (group or project) to the `data_transfer_monitoring` feature flag.
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