Track cases when load balancer WAL locations are missing
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Follow-up for stale reads investigation https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/issues/364799#note_1144352021.
### Problem
We don't track cases when [wal_location verification is skipped](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/blob/56841bf1c8c212400dcfc8b9466fb01742f6f638/lib/gitlab/database/load_balancing/sidekiq_server_middleware.rb#L110-113). But it might be useful to detect potential misconfiguration problems.
### Proposal
Add logging when we cannot find a matching load balancer.
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