Invert `merge_requests_author_approval` to match similar fields
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https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/issues/324087#note_585540027
`merge_requests_author_approval` is at odds with its natural partner `merge_requests_disable_committers_approval` as well as with it's `application_settings` cousins `prevent_merge_requests_author_approval` and `prevent_merge_requests_committers_approval` in that `true` means "allow this action". This caused QUITE a bit of confusion in #324087. To fix this, we need to go through several steps:
- add a new column `merge_requests_disable_author_approval`
- add a method to populate/change it when `merge_requests_author_approval` is changed
- check for any existing indices that need to be reconstituted with the new field
- a background migration to backfill the new field for _every single project_
- alias `Project#merge_requests_author_approval` (or replace every call with the new attribute)
- invert any logic
- drop `merge_requests_author_approval` and any associated indices
It's a lot of busy work, but not pressing at this point, I don't think.. actually, a really good ~"Community contribution" candidate (or for the hackathon)
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