Add chat notification when deployment starts
### Problem to solve
We already have chat notifications for successfull/canceled/failed deployments for slack, mattermost, etc... But not for starting deployments.
Notifications for starting deployments might be valuable, e.g. as warning that something is happening with production infrastructure right now.
### Proposal
Add notification about starting deployments to chat integrations.
### Note
It's highly coupled with https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/issues/235474, so it will take less effort to work on these 2 issues simultaneously.
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