Send notification on merge request merge failure
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### Description
When a merge request fails for reasons other than merge conflicts, there is no notification to the user. As such errors are not spotted immediately for rectification.
Reasons include:
- commit hook
- commit squash failure
- Any error which results in 'An error occurred while merging. Try again.' (for example: #384017)
### Proposal
Send a notification in the same way notifications are sent for a pipeline failure or a merge request merge success.
### Links / references
https://gitlab.zendesk.com/agent/tickets/82782
Make sure these are completed before closing the issue,
with a link to the relevant commit.
- [ ] [Feature assurance](https://about.gitlab.com/handbook/product/#feature-assurance)
- [ ] Documentation
- [ ] Added to [features.yml](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-com/www-gitlab-com/blob/master/data/features.yml)
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