Real time todos in issuable sidebar
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### Problem
We've added the ability to mark/unmark todos on a collapsed sidebar.

It would be great to take this even further and real time todos in the sidebar. When I comment on an issue that marks a todo as complete, the sidebar should update to reflect that I no longer have a todo.
### Scope
- Make todos in issuable sidebar and collapsed sidebar reflect the real status of the object making it a SSOT even across browser tabs
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