MergeRequests API option to mark merge request as merged
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### Why
A customer wanted to use the API to mark an MR as merged because the change was already merged by and external tool.
### What
`PUT /projects/:id/merge_requests/:merge_request_id` to accept `state_event` option `mark_as_merged`.
This could either be passed directly to the model or wrapped in a service to trigger any actions needed from `PostMergeService`. The model already has the following:
```ruby
event :mark_as_merged do
transition [:reopened, :opened, :locked] => :merged
end
```
### Links / references
- https://gitlab.zendesk.com/agent/tickets/52552
- https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/25566
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