[Docker Install] Default to two connections (main, and ci)

Default to two DB connections (main, and ci)

Proposal

As a follow up for #387906 (closed), We should change Docker Install to use two database connections by default in %16.0

If there is already an explicit configuration, we should respect that.

This is likely to be based on omnibus-gitlab#7451 (closed)

Documentation Update

This issue should also update the documentation regarding:

  1. What is changing in this release %16.0 with defaulting to two connections, as opposed to using one connection before.
  2. Intructions on how to switch back to one connection. Opposite of the existing documentation that has been done prior to %16.0 for the related platform.
  3. Intructions on how to instruct Omnibus/chart to keep using single connection before upgrading to %16.0 (aka pin)

Notes

  1. We deliberately make this change in a major version %16.0 because it is a big change.
  2. Customers can flip it back to false (e.g. if they encounter issues).
Edited by Omar Qunsul