Use FastDestroy for deleting uploads

What does this MR do?

The idea is to:

• use similar approach as in app/models/ci/build_trace_chunks
• gather list of file paths when deleting a project, in after commit delete these paths
• do not use carrier wave for this (so we avoid building/using deleted models)
• deletion of files is done asynchronously in batches of 100

TODO

• make sure that all models use model id in file path (so there is no problem if model with same name is recreated before uploads are really deleted)
• schedule deletion asynchronously in batches and in parallel using sidekiq
• add tests

Are there points in the code the reviewer needs to double check?

Why was this MR needed?

Closes #46069 (closed)

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Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

• Changelog entry added, if necessary
• Documentation created/updated
• API support added
• Tests added for this feature/bug
• Conforms to the code review guidelines
  • Has been reviewed by a UX Designer
  • Has been reviewed by a Frontend maintainer
  • Has been reviewed by a Backend maintainer
  • Has been reviewed by a Database specialist
• Conforms to the merge request performance guidelines
• Conforms to the style guides
• Conforms to the database guides
• If you have multiple commits, please combine them into a few logically organized commits by squashing them
• Internationalization required/considered
• End-to-end tests pass (package-and-qa manual pipeline job)

What are the relevant issue numbers?

Closes #46069 (closed)