Remove bundled PostgreSQL, Redis, MinIO
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## Summary
In GitLab 19.0 the bundled PostgreSQL, Redis and MinIO must be removed from GitLab chart as announced in https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/charts/gitlab/-/work_items/6271.
## Acceptance Criteria
- [ ] Bundled Redis/PostgreSQL/MinIO removed
- [ ] Related templates and values that handle defaulting to bundled Redis/PostgreSQL/MinIO removed
- [ ] Add upgrade check that fails if no external Redis/PostgreSQL/MinIO have been configured
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