The patroni nodes are failing to start due to the race condition occuring at the start up scripts
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## Details
During the Game day https://gitlab.com/gitlab-com/gl-infra/production/-/work_items/21110, we have noticed that the nodes were taking too longer to launch and upon investigation we found the nodes were failing in the startup scripts and failures were
```
[ 748.190299] google_metadata_script_runner[2737]: startup-script: W: Tried to start delayed item http://security.ubuntu.com/ubuntu jammy-security InRelease, but failed
[ 748.190380] google_metadata_script_runner[2737]: startup-script: W: Tried to start delayed item http://security.ubuntu.com/ubuntu jammy-security InRelease, but failed
[ 748.190450] google_metadata_script_runner[2737]: startup-script: + apt-get install -y build-essential
[ 748.190515] google_metadata_script_runner[2737]: startup-script: E: Could not get lock /var/lib/dpkg/lock-frontend. It is held by process 1842 (apt-get)
[ 748.190607] google_metadata_script_runner[2737]: startup-script: E: Unable to acquire the dpkg frontend lock (/var/lib/dpkg/lock-frontend), is another process using it?
[ 748.190781] google_metadata_script_runner[2737]: Script "startup-script" failed with error: exit status 100
[ 748.190849] google_metadata_script_runner[2737]: Finished running startup scripts.
```
The script has a **race condition** between its own package installations and Ubuntu's automatic background processes (like `unattended-upgrades` that starts on boot).
Investigating through the strart up scripts https://ops.gitlab.net/gitlab-com/gl-infra/config-mgmt/-/blob/main/packer/scripts/bootstrap.sh?ref_type=heads
In the `install_chef()` function around line 345-350:
```
apt-get update -y
apt-get install -y gnupg ca-certificates ubuntu-keyring software-properties-common
add-apt-repository universe
add-apt-repository main
apt-get install -y build-essential # <-- This is line 57.633331 in your error
```
This section runs **without waiting for apt locks** to be released, unlike the `enroll_ubuntu_advantage()` function which does it correctly.
### This might be happening due to
1. VM boots up
2. Ubuntu's `unattended-upgrades` service starts automatically (process 1839)
3. Your bootstrap script starts almost immediately
4. Both try to acquire the dpkg lock
5. Bootstrap script fails because `unattended-upgrades` got there first
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