Create memory-bound sidekiq shard Kubernetes deployment

• Upgrade the helm chart to latest
• Enable the beta querySelector feature
• mimic the desired configuration on our VM's

Deploy

• memory-bound shard on pre
  • Create the node pool: https://ops.gitlab.net/gitlab-com/gitlab-com-infrastructure/-/merge_requests/1654
  • Create the shard deployment: gitlab-com/gl-infra/k8s-workloads/gitlab-com!204 (merged)
• memory-bound shard on gstg
  • Create the node pool: https://ops.gitlab.net/gitlab-com/gitlab-com-infrastructure/-/merge_requests/1665
  • Create the shared deployment: gitlab-com/gl-infra/k8s-workloads/gitlab-com!205 (merged)
• memory-bound shard on gprd
  • Create the node pool: https://ops.gitlab.net/gitlab-com/gitlab-com-infrastructure/-/merge_requests/1688
  • Create the shared deployment: gitlab-com/gl-infra/k8s-workloads/gitlab-com!207 (merged)
  • Change issue production#2058 (closed)
• project_export queue is deprecated on all environments