v0.1.10: SONNY-1568 per-connection reader threads

Releases the per-connection reader-thread series:
- server reads frames on a per-connection thread so flow-control credit is
  processed while a response is being written (9a70efa)
- credit waiters are released when the peer vanishes; teardown is TLS-safe
  (be74a46)
- peer-gone tests are park-proof and client writers are released when the
  reader exits (89f3fba)

build.zig.zon .version bumped 0.1.8 -> 0.1.10 (00589eb) to satisfy the
check-version-tag gate; .version was left stale when v0.1.9 was tagged.