chore: updated `package-lock.json`, README to explain how to get submodules, and iterator with limit tests

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updating to node 20

This fixes a problem with running `ts-node`, turns out swc broke something and is pending a fix in https://github.com/TypeStrong/ts-node/pull/2057.

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Updating js-db project structure and integrating 4.0.0 of `@matrixai/async-locks`

Upgrade CodeSee workflow to version 2

feat: `crypto` can be passed in `DB.start`, this enables restarting the `DB` with a new `crypto` object

Fix committing or rollbacking dangling transactions

fix: dangling transactions should be automatically rollbacked only when it is not already rollbacking or committing

* if it is committing or rollbacking, then it should just do an early destroy, but the destroy waits for the commit or rollback to finish
* if the transaction hasn't started committing or rollbacking, it may throw an exception when it does after the db is already stopped