databases/mysql-connector-odbc: Update version 5.3.13=>5.3.14

- Add USES=ssl
- Mark to IGNORE_WITH_MYSQL=80 101m 102m 103m 57p 57w
- Mark DEPRECATED as requires EOLed mysql version 5.6 or 5.7
- Set EXPIRATION_DATE to 2023-12-31

Changes:
https://dev.mysql.com/doc/relnotes/connector-odbc/en/news-5-3-14.html