emulators/wine: Improve configuration for ALSA and OSS

Use ALSA_CONFIGURE_WITH and OSS_CONFIGURE_WITH instead of the
ALSA_CONFIGURE_ON and OSS_CONFIGURE_ON forms.

This properly handles the case where neither the ALSA nor OSS option
are set. It's more resilient to future changes. And shorter.

(This back ports 944eff5c from the wine-devel port.)

PR:		273987

emulators/wine/Makefile

@@ -79,7 +79,7 @@ MONO_DESC=	Bundle Mono MSI package for Wine
 
 PORTSCOUT=	limit:^8\.0
 
-ALSA_CONFIGURE_ON=	--with-alsa --without-oss
+ALSA_CONFIGURE_WITH=	alsa
 ALSA_LIB_DEPENDS=	libasound.so:audio/alsa-lib
 ALSA_RUN_DEPENDS=	alsa-plugins>0:audio/alsa-plugins
 
@@ -95,7 +95,7 @@ GNUTLS_LIB_DEPENDS=	libgnutls.so:security/gnutls
 
 MONO_RUN_DEPENDS=	wine-mono>0:emulators/wine-mono
 
-OSS_CONFIGURE_ON=	--without-alsa --with-oss
+OSS_CONFIGURE_WITH=	oss
 
 V4L_CONFIGURE_WITH=	v4l2
 V4L_BUILD_DEPENDS=	${LOCALBASE}/include/linux/videodev2.h:multimedia/v4l_compat